BFF - DEAR DIARY ( Part Two )

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EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

Dear diary,

 Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there..

They serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become..

You never know who these people may be; your roommate, your neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very MOMENT..that they will affect your LIFE in some profound way..

And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of HEART.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the SOUL.

Without these small tests, if they be events, illness or relationship, life would be like a smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience they are the ones who create who you are.. Even the bad experience can be learned from...Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones..

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart.. forgive them , for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautions to whom you open your heart..

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from everything that you possibly can,for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it. I wish you all the best in your endeavors as well as struggles in life. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in the struggle.

 LESSON LEARNED :)
Your Sincerely,
TRULYMADLYDEEPLY

BeFabulousForever
by Oya Rahman



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